When you see the damage toxic men and women can do in your family you cannot un-see it or unlearn it.

It can take decades to realise something is VERY wrong, it starts off as just a strange feeling, somethings off.

I now SEE both of you, the children need to SEE what you are doing and deal with it, sooner rather than later (like I did too late) .

They ALL know it is so wrong but they are too scared to act on it.

No child should have to suffer at the hands of their parents, it is wrong on so many levels and I will never turn a blind eye, how can I now my eyes have been opened?

TBC

Narcs are selfish, self centred nasty people, everything they do is about them, they lie all the time to get what they want, eventually they turn their victims into supporters. It's insane, the damage they can do and it is handed down from generation to generation.

Research your grandparents and great grandparents.

Talking to a narc is like talking to a zombie. They only think of one person, themselves.