If life throws bad stuff at you, throw it back & move on
Entire families are Lying by omission
Lying by omission (also called "omission bias" or "lying through omission") is a form of deception where a person withholds key information that is relevant and important, even though everything they do say is technically true.
Core Idea You’re not fabricating facts, but you’re deliberately leaving out pieces of the truth that would significantly change how the other person understands the situation. The goal is usually to mislead without being caught in a direct lie.
This means you cannot trust a single thing anyone in that dysfunctional family tells you, ZERO honesty, zero integrity, zero trust. This goes on from generation to generation.
You chose to be cruel and manipulative just because you are weak minded and horrible, just because you were treated badly as a child.
I'm not like you, I will never inflict pain on people just because you tried to do it to me, however I will call you out, and retaliate, abusers beget abuse.
Admit it, apologise or continue your stupidity, your choice.