When you finally realise what's been going on around you for decades it all starts to make total sense

Deep secrets, non-communication, the love bombs to draw you back into the controlled zone, the anger, lies, slurring to make you comply, new love bombs when you do comply. Control freaks are so sneaky.

Then you finally blow, cut ALL ties and the real battle starts, they all gang up, the controllers have their little army of enablers, friends that have no clue how bad they are, kids that believe the lies, monster lies upon lies.

Take a VERY close look at everyone around you, are they a bit odd, do they MAKE you do stuff and guilt trip you if you don't, are they super selfish, users?

Have a really deep think about the manipulative people in your life, men, women, dads, wives, husbands, sisters, brothers etc.

I walk away before trying to manipulate a single person in my life, what about the people around YOU?