This problem within families is way worse than I ever realised, way bigger than just the reported 20% of the adult population are toxic too. Once you know what to look for, you can see the patterns repeating within the families around you.

Educate yourselves, ask AI, do the research, ask WHY?

I've seen it many times before, the end result is you and your toxic controller alone because he/she will have driven everyone that loves you away. You both die miserable.