Narcissists do most damage inside the home, behind closed doors - ONLY the family KNOW the truth
All the evil control freaks I have known prey on women, man on women and sadly women on women. They hide what they do so well, they are pillars of the community outside the homes.
Four men in my past were in the FREEMASOM cult, full of sad weak men with inferiority complexes, some were council officials, police people, traffic wardens, they all have to find jobs where they feel they can control people, make decent peoples lives hell.
Don't get me wrong, just a tiny minority of nasty bullies and weak minded cretins are freemasons, police, councillors, traffic wardens etc but it stands to reason the saddos will get jobs that gives them power over decent people.
Their world falls apart the moment you let the whole world know exactly who they are
You will get to a point when you are so broken, you have nothing to lose
A friend of mine did, she got rid of the reptile bloke that made her life hell, outed him to all his friends. Now he has NO friends and his name is all over Facebook and the social media sites, scary.