If life throws bad stuff at you, throw it back & move on
My research suggests 600 million to a billion adults are toxic today, the victims are so scared of them, they cannot think straight, they tell me things like I cannot leave him, I have no money, where would I live? etc
Think on this, you may have two or three adult children that hate their dad because of the way he treats you and them. You may have a brother or sister that hates your husband because of the way he treats you and them.
You may have a mother or father that keeps quiet because she/he cannot see a way of getting rid of the vile toxic man.
Toxic people break families apart, imagine how it could be if the victims all pulled together. Three fantastic children supporting their wonderful and super strong but abused mum, their nanny pitching in , your sister and brother all glad the vermin toxic man is finally outed, supporting your decision to finally get rid of him.
You could have that smallholding you dreamed about, decent people all living together once the poison is expelled.
Oh and there is the monster family secret.
I need an apology phone call.